Self-righteousness is dangerous and damages our relationships, our teams, and our ability to communicate and collaborate. Eliminating our self-righteousness is a challenging but important thing for us as leaders, people and those who want to positively influence and influence others.
Self-righteous people are often intolerant of the opinions and behavior of others. A self-righteous person could also be described as expressing disinterest in seeking a selfless or objective standard of right and wrong, regardless of how they interact with other people.
In short, like many theistic writers, self-righteous people have bad attitudes: they are intolerant, complacent, and hypocritical, and—overconfident of their righteousness or moral superiority—try to assert it over others to “dominate” them, unfairly portraying them as weak, dependent and indiscriminate…
Just: upright, moral, justified. Self-Righteous: confident of being righteous. Righteous is positive while self-righteous is negative.
: Having or exhibiting the attitude of a person who firmly believes in the rightness of their own actions or opinions.
Focus on similarities. If you think about how someone is different from you, you might end up feeling like you’re better than them. Instead, try to find ways in which you are similar. If you feel like someone is “on your team,” even if it’s just a little bit, you’re probably feeling less self-righteous towards them.
A self righteous person thinks they can’t go wrong and goes about with a “holier than you” attitude, judging and testing everyone else. A fur designer may view PETA activists as self-righteous when they parade his runway show. When it comes to musical taste, you may think a friend is self-righteous.
Self-righteous narcissists are those who derive their narcissistic validation and sustenance from asserting themselves as some sort of morally superior person — and focus more on just doing things and being in control than from a more flexible place of the heart.
Self-righteous people thrive on attention, so they start things or continue things unnecessarily. When confronted with them, don’t give them what they want. You can agree with them, disagree with them, somehow sympathize with them – just don’t show it and don’t say anything. Let your silence and inaction speak for themselves.
Proverbs 21:21 tells us: “He who pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor“. However, God does not want us to be self-righteous.
Self-righteous is a word for someone who thinks they are always right. Stubborn is the most common word for someone who refuses to change their mind about something.
When you describe someone as self-righteous, you disapprove of them because they believe their beliefs, attitudes, and behaviors are right and other people are wrong. [rejection]
People with low self-esteem, people who are unhappy in their lives, people who are frustrated with where they are in life are the most prone to self-righteous outrage. By finding someone we believe to be smaller or worse than ourselves and judging them, we manage to feel a kind of superiority.